"THERE NEVER HAS BEEN, NOR WILL THERE EVER BE, ANYTHING QUITE SO SPECIAL AS THE LOVE BETWEEN A MOTHER AND A SON." - AUTHOR UNKNOWN


Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Bar Stool Hopping, Fun With Leaves, No Sleep Sack, Daylight Savings Problems, Potty-Training Ready, Bees In Bagels & A Crib Escape Attempt

2 Years & 2 Weeks

I think this will be my last blog for a couple weeks or so.  We are having the baby (still unnamed) next Monday, 11/19 and I think I will need a couple of weeks to breathe before I get going on the blog again.  I don't want to wait too long because I hate to do really long recaps... so we'll see how it goes. 

Last Friday Ty & I laid low all day because I was fully down for the count with my cold.  I really felt miserable.  I mustered up enough strength to go to the grocery store, though, so I accomplished something!  Tyson is getting too smart for his own good.  He has been obsessed with our bar stools and has been dragging them all over the kitchen, climbing on them and doing various things.  For example, he will drag it over to our kitchen TV, turn on the TV, and start a movie in the DVD player.  Then he will drag the stool over to one of the drawers and empty out all the dish towels and pot holders.   But he really showed his brilliance when he dragged it over to the candy cabinet.  He climbed up, turned the lock on the jelly cabinet to open it, then got down, dragged the stool away from the door, then opened the door and started to help himself to all the candy!  Oh my goodness!  My little rascal.
Having a great time with his drum


Trying to get the candy cabinet open

Success!

On Sabbath Heath & I felt just horrible, so we didn't go to church.  I was happy, though for two reasons.  One, I was happy that Tyson seemed to be fine with his cold...Heath & I just got it so much worse.  But two, I was really happy that we were getting sick 2 weeks out from the baby being born.  It would really stink to be this sick and expose your newborn to it.  So it really was a blessing!  I have been in major cleaning/nesting mode and getting things accomplished every day, so it was very weird to have a day that I did absolutely nothing.  And I didn't.  Heath & Ty took naps in the afternoon and I just laid in bed and surfed the internet.  It was great!  You have to love Sabbaths!  One thing that was weird was that it took Tyson about an hour to fall asleep for his nap.  He goes down so easily, usually, but for some reason - he just wouldn't go to sleep.  He wasn't crying, he was just playing with his pillow and animals in his crib, and just not going to sleep.  But finally he just laid down and went out!  Then he slept for about 2.5 hours, but since it took him an hour to go to sleep - we were Tyson-free for a long time!  Heath was kind of disturbed by this.  He said, "I think I'm going to wake him up."  I just about tackled him when he said that and he didn't – but I mean, what was he thinking?  Saturday night Heath & I figured out what color to paint the walls in the bathroom.  He actually made the color by mixing paints together.  We had gotten a couple of samples to try but we hated them both, but after mixing with some white and made it lighter... we got to a color we liked.  So we painted it on a stick to have Home Depot match it.
Since Heath & I were down & out, Ty played with Reeses

Ty was throwing this ball for Reeses but never letting her get it, of course!

Ty's new thing is never looking at the camera when I ask him to!

Sunday was a busy day.  We got up at about 8 AM (which was actually 7 AM, thanks to the time change) and Ty slept until that time as well (maybe for the last time).  Heath got right going on the bathroom and he got so much accomplished - I was so proud of him.  He got the tile sealed, caulking around the tub done, a coat of primer, and a coat of paint on the walls.  The color came out perfect, so we were happy with that.  He also managed to mow the lawn and finish up the leaves too, as coats of primer/paint were drying.  He worked hard, despite his cold.  We brought Ty outside in the leaves with his tractor and he was in heaven - filling up his trailer with leaves and "helping" Dad dump them!  Heath put Ty in the giant pile of leaves that he drags on a huge tarp to the woods.  At first he was scared, but then he loved it!  It was so cute! So for the day, I was in charge of Ty, of course, while Heath got all these things done and a few major things happened.  First of all, he is officially refusing to sleep in his sleep sack now.  If I put him in it, he will spend the first 10-15 minutes of him going down struggling to unzip it and get it off his arms, whining the whole time.  So, it's just not worth it.  Unfortunately, since he won't keep his blankets on him during the night (he is a restless sleeper), he gets cold.  So he has been waking up usually once a night and I have to cover him again with his blanket.  I really wish he would wear the sleep sack, but I don't want to make him stressed every night, so you pick your battles.  The other big thing on Sunday is that he is totally saying, "Poop, poop" and pointing to his butt all the time now!  It is actually purposeful and it is when he poops!  I feel like this is terrible timing, since he is probably ready for potty-training, but I can't start it with the new baby coming right now.  It's just not going to work, but at least he is really getting ready, so that is good news!  In the late afternoon, Ty & I ran to the pharmacies and got barely anything.  The one good thing is I got was my gummy multivitamins for $2.50 each (they are usually $6.99), but that was, seriously, the only great deal I got.

Helping Mama make muffins for breakfast

Helping Dad with the leaves



That little white speck in the leaves is Ty 


Will NOT look at the camera

He looked at me when he had finally ripped his hat off - because he was so proud!

On Monday we didn’t do too much, but Ty had some funny things that he did.  What wasn’t funny was that he woke up at 6 AM up for the day, but he ended up making up for it with a 3 hour and 20 minute nap!  I don’t know if I would take that trade-off, though.  I don’t know if I’ve mentioned it, but when Ty wakes up in the morning now, he says, “eat…eat....eat…” (he always says words in threes)!  A couple of weeks ago it was “deat, deat, deat”… so we really are making progress.  Well, during breakfast I was giving him a raisin bagel, when he said, “Uh oh, uh oh…bee.”  He was pointing at the raisins and was convinced that the raisins were some kind of bug!!!  He has eaten raisins plain before and loved them, but in his bagel he wouldn’t touch them!  This same OCD behavior continued at lunch when he was having his left-over pizza from the OG.  You know when pizza crust gets a little overdone and there can be a couple black spots – same with the cheese… well, he wouldn’t put the pizza in his mouth until he had picked all the black spots out!  Update on his eating from last week’s post, I have put my foot down with the wandering around during meal times and he is now strapped back down in his booster seat and remains that way until he is done!  Monday night, he refused a lot of supper and didn’t eat well but then tried to eat off of his tray once he was “freed” from his seat.  I told him in no uncertain terms that this was over.  If he insisted on being done and getting out of his seat, he wasn’t going to keep snacking and munching while running around.  He seemed to have gotten the hint and this week has been so much better!  Thank goodness! 

He knows exactly how to turn the Ipad on and flick through pictures!

He just discovered the joys of pockets and loves to put his hands in his pockets!

Heath was talking with helium (from Ty's old b-day balloons) & Ty thought it was a riot

On Tuesday Ty had gotten up at 6:30, so I was hoping that he would start moving his wake-up time back to his regular 7:30-8:00 by half-hour increments.  It makes it hard when you go to bed at 2 AM, so I’ve tried to go to bed a bit earlier because of that.  Who came up with daylight savings anyways?  Shannon & Fin came over for the day and Ty & Fin played together for awhile.  Of course “playing” equals fighting over toys, but they were cute.  In the afternoon, we hit up a couple of kid thrift stores around here and found a few treasures.  Tuesday night, surprisingly, the bribing seems to be working again with his eating.  I had made Brazilian Stroganoff and he was, of course, refusing to try it.  But all I had to do was break out the homemade bread (my bread machine worked this week) and he was taking the biggest bites of stroganoff ever! 

Pt pulled the puppy's bed off the couch and loaded it up in his trailer.  Poor dogs.

He loves bread

We got a case of newborn diapers from Amazon and Ty had fun making a tower with them

And also loading them up in his tractor!

Tyson slept for my mom until 8 AM on Wednesday!  He had woken up at 7 AM, but I had convinced him that it wasn’t “time to get up yet, honey” and he rolled over and went back to sleep!  Ty had been waiting for Noni to come baby-sit him all week long!  Every time we go into his room, he points at his tent and says “tent…tent… Noni… Noni…”  It’s like he really knows that Noni was the one who gave him his tent.  But then he gets focused on Noni and calls for her all the time!  They had a good day together but Ty gave Noni a scare.  Ty took awhile to go down for his nap again (he wasn’t crying, just not sleeping) and Noni looked at the monitor to check on him and he was putting his leg over the crib railing!!!!  He has never, ever, done this.  It seems to have been a fluke, because I have been watching like a hawk and he hasn’t done it again.  But his days of being in the crib are probably numbered. 

"The" tent

On Thursday Ty was back to getting up at 6:15, and I was quite discouraged at this!  We bummed around the house and then went out to eat at Mexican with Adam.  Have a great week!  2 AM if fast approaching and I know Ty will be up early again!       
  
He didn't like to wear it around his neck at first, but now he is putting it on himself

Monday, November 5, 2012

Cake-Eating,2 Yr Stats, Sharing w/ The Baby & "Noni"

2 Years & 1 Week

Last Friday I was in major cleaning mode!  Call it nesting or whatever… but I want this place to be in tip-top shape for when the little one arrives.  I cleaned out my coat/shoe closet and two of my major problem food cabinets.  I did the food cabinets while Tyson was napping, for obvious reasons.  I didn’t feel like listening to melt-downs of why he can’t fill up on “cwackers” (one of his favorite words).  I can’t tell you how great it feels to get those things done!  Every time I organize them, I always say, “It is never going to get this bad again.  I won’t let it happen!”  But yet it always does.  Friday afternoon, Ty & I went grocery shopping and then came back and made fettuccine and homemade meatballs.  The Frosts came over for Friday night dinner (like old times) and we had a nice visit, as usual.  After 24 hours of not having a fever, Ty had another one of 100.6, not too high… but what the heck?
Everything out of the closet

Ty & Fin raising heck in the tupperware cabinet

On Sabbath I had to work and Ty & Heath laid low at home, since Ty was still not himself.  The boys slept in until almost 10 AM… very unlike Heath.  I think the commuting is a bit tiring, since he has to get up at 5:30 AM now.  I don’t think anything earth-shattering happened on Sabbath, or at least anything that was reported to me!

He looks a bit subdued here

On Sunday I worked again and the boys remained at home.  For some reasons that fail me, Heath decided that he wanted to try to grout the bathroom, while taking care of Tyson alone.  He at least started it while Tyson went down for his nap.  Ty can nap anywhere from 1.5 hours to 3 hours, but the 1.5 hours is a guarantee.  Unless the nap is for Heath.  Ty decided that he only wanted to nap for 45 minutes and then proceeded to have melt-down after melt-down.  Of course, once you start grouting – you really can’t stop… because it is all about timing and the grout will dry… it is a big mess.  And it was a big mess with Tyson.  Ty would not stay out of the bathroom, so Heath put a gate up in the doorway and then brought a bunch of Ty’s toys/books etc. right outside of the gate.  So Ty would play there and watch Heath, but would whine constantly and say, “Daddy…daddy…daddy!”  At one point, Ty had walked away and Heath heard him say, “ooooo.”  He usually does that when he sees something that he wants to eat.  Heath let him be… and things got quiet for awhile (never a good sign) and then Heath heard him say, “Yum.”  Heath couldn’t take it anymore.  He got out of the bathroom and could not believe what he saw.  Tyson was sitting on one of the bar stools, and had pulled over the left-over birthday cake (that had been on the counter covered with tin foil) and was putting fistfuls of cake into his mouth!!!!  I wish so badly that Heath would have gotten a picture, but I guess the mental picture will have to do!  I got out of work late and then went to the pharmacies afterwards.  Not a huge week, but got Pantene shampoo & conditioner for $0.25 each (best I’ve ever done) and got some deodorant for myself for $0.49 each.  Ty was already asleep when I got home and I was distressed to hear him coughing up a storm when I got home.  So he developed cold symptoms after all… or was it from all the cake?

Heath tries just about anything to get him to eat too


Monday was a busy day.  First of all, I have to say that as soon as we went downstairs, the first words out of Tyson’s mouth was “cake, cake.”  I had to break the news to him that I had thrown out the cake the night before, since it was a week old.  But he got over it.  We ended up getting up a bit early and made it to his 2 year appointment.  I was a little worried about this because of his eating problems of late.  But his weight percentile was the best he has ever been!  So that put me at ease a bit.  His stats were…
weight= 25 pounds (between 15-20th  percentile) 
height= 34 ½ inches (50th percentile, where he has always been) 
head= 19 inches (45th percentile, where he has always been too)
So he is doing great and she reassured me about the eating.  This is probably a phase and just not to stress about it.  I will do my best, but it is hard.  He seemed to only have a cold, with the coughing and runny nose that he had gotten the night before.  His ears, throat, and lungs were fine, so that was good.  And he was fever-free again.  He only had to get his flu shot and he did great as usual.  He still has not cried for his shots yet (since his very first shots as an infant), but this time he came the closest.  He watched the needle go in and after it was done he kind of whined… “hmmm…”  But that was it, he is such a trooper.  He is definitely up to 50 words now, so she is not concerned about him needing speech therapy or anything… so that was good news too.  It is just amazing how he has exploded with the words all of a sudden.  I know everyone kept telling me it was going to happen, but it is just great!  I mean, he really cares and tries to imitate absolutely everything we say now.  We have to really watch ourselves now! (=  I wanted to go to a few shops after his appointment in Concord, but I figured we better get ourselves home because Sandy was coming.  There were signs on I 93 saying, “avoid the roads at 3 PM”, so we boogied home instead.  I focused on getting the laundry done, just in case we lost power that night or Tuesday.  I managed to get it all done, so that was great. And we never lost power.  It never turned into anything big at all for us.  I know NY & NJ got slammed, but we were just very lucky where we were.  Ty did a couple of cute things that afternoon.  I was bringing a load of laundry upstairs to our bedroom (and left Ty in our room) when I came through the door and found him in the baby’s crib!  He had climbed into it and thought he was all that!  What a rascal.  Another thing that was so cute – was that he dumped out all the baby’s toys that I have in a basket (of course, they used to be his toys).   He was examining all the toys and I told him, “That’s for baby brother.”  And what did he do?  He took the toy and put it on my belly!  And then he grabbed another one and put another one on my belly!  It was so so cute!  He seems to be obsessed with the baby and is always saying, “baby… baby” and touching my belly.  I hope it continues when he really gets here!  Oh yeah, my cleaning continued when I reorganized our messy walk-in clothes closet on Monday night.  That took about 3.5 hours, but man, was it worth it!

He's all into showing his own belly as well

On Tuesday Sandy was officially over in our area, so my mother, sister & I braved it by going to Manchester for my doctor’s appointment.  We really “braved” it all right, when we had beautiful blue skies and everything!  We did our usual Lots 4 Tots thrift store and then Chipotle.  Mom was nice enough to take both kids in Hobby Lobby (the store next to the thrift store) so Shannon & I could get some kid-free shopping done.  It paid off too!  I almost pulled the trigger on the exact double stroller that we had just bought brand-new at Babies R Us (well, the coloring was a little different, but I liked it)… but I found what looked like grease stains on the fabric as I was bringing it up to the register that I hadn’t seen before, so I didn’t get it.  It would have been half-price in comparison – I just wish Heath was there to help me make the decision!  My OB appointment went great, well – except for the fact that I had gained 8 pounds since my last appointment 4 weeks ago.  Technically, I should have only gained 4 (1 pound a week), but these dang sugar cookies that I am addicted to has been my downfall, I’m sure!  What are you going to do?  I had an ultrasound and they estimated him at 5 pounds 10 oz, which is already 2 oz bigger than Ty was when he was delivered (at 36 weeks 6 days, and I was 36 weeks 3 days at this appointment with this little one).  If I can make it to the end, this new baby is going to seem huge compared to Ty!  Oh yeah, and my amniotic fluid level was 19 cm!  The best I have had yet!  So everything is just perfect!  Thank you Lord!  On Tuesday night, I tried a new pasta recipe with sugar snap peas, spinach & basil and it was pretty good.  But I had to give Ty the pasta, without all the green stuff or he would refuse to eat it.  Well, wouldn’t you know… one of the tubes of pasta had the tiniest green speck you have ever seen INSIDE the tube… but he spotted it a mile away and had to take the time to dissect the pasta until he got the green speck removed!  What OCD.  Really. 

Driving his tractor with his backpack on!

Then riding his car with his backpack on


On Wednesday I worked and Mom said that Ty really was so grown-up.  First of all, she was doing something and Ty tried to get her attention – so he said, “Noni, Noni!”  That was the first time that he had ever said her name on his own and not just imitating what we have said!  So that was a big moment.  Another thing that was cute was that my Dad came over in the afternoon and the three of them went to the outlets, looking for jeans for my Dad.  Ty was very helpful and would bring my Dad the jeans in the dressing room for him to try on.  Ty would say, “Poppy, poppy” and bring the jeans to him!  Again, I can just see these mental images! (=

On Thursday morning I was up going to the bathroom at about 4:30 AM, when I realized I was really nauseated and was really fighting so I would be sick.  I fought it until after 6:30 AM, when I finally fell back asleep.  But I wasn’t much better when I woke up and ended up taking a Zofran.  I don’t understand why… I just hoped that I wasn’t going into labor or anything… but I wasn’t.  I don’t know what the nausea was about, but I finally felt better in the afternoon – but then the cold symptoms started in.  Heath had just started to get Ty’s cold the night before and I guess I had it too.  Ty was doing great with his cold – it seemed pretty minor for him, so that was good.  Thursday afternoon, my parents picked Ty & I up and we drove to Concord.  We went right to the hairdressers and I finally got my hair cut (it was getting way too long) and Ty got his cut too!  We did ours at the same time and he did great.  He ran right over to me, all excited after he was done and my parents kept him company while I finished.  After that, Ty & I dropped my parents off at the movies and Ty & I did some shopping.  We ran to Walmart, Target, and Goodwill.  We met Shannon, Sean & Finley at Goodwill and then Heath met us there from work.  Then the Frosts picked up Mom & Dad after their movie (while I was paying at Goodwill) and we all went to the OG.  We met Adam & Sonia there too.  It was quite a group of us!  Ty would not sit still at the OG and would just run around between Sonia, my Mom, and Heath mostly.  He ate some at least.  He said, “straw” plain as day, completely on his own without any prompting from us, when he was reaching for a straw!  So that was exciting!  Also exciting was that I was so thankful that my nausea was gone for me to enjoy the food, but I stuffed myself too much and then became quite uncomfortable with the full belly & pregnancy belly.  I really should learn.  Poor Finley turned out to be sick and threw up a couple of times while she was there… seemed to be from coughing, but she was kind of miserable.  So sicknesses appear to be in full form!  I guess my wish for next week is the same as last week – that we have healthier times to look forward to!

He got one of his balls stuck underneath this thing and he had a fit until I helped him get him out

This is another dangerous stunt that he pulled - little chair on top of the big chair